THE Love Movement
Shifting Thoughts, Transforming Relationships
Lama Aboubakr | Relationship Coach & Mentor
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Client Testimonials
“Coaching with Lama has been a huge catalyst for change in my life. It's difficult to articulate the impact she's had but it's transformed my personal life, the way I speak to myself, deal with my emotions and even my career. Every session taught me something.
In terms of relationships there was an almost immediate change to the type of men coming into my life, which completely shifted my mindset about the whole process.
She has the unique gift of getting to the core of the issue and gently guiding through all the pain and the obstacles.
It's truly life changing because she teaches you the tools you need, on both a practical and spiritual level, to actually move forward. And these tools can serve you a lifetime. I'm truly grateful and blessed to have had the chance to work with her.”
— Zaira“I had the pleasure of working with Lama over the past few months, and the experience has been truly transformative. When we began, I felt anxious about my marriage journey and uncertain about my own self-worth having gone through a personal setback. Today, I feel more grounded, secure and deeply connected to my worth through Allah. I am also able to recognise the mindset and approach of a secure attachment style and consciously step into that version of myself. Lama has guided me in developing the tools and emotional resilience needed to navigate challenges with confidence. I now approach situations from a place of calm and self-assurance, embracing the journey with sincere Tawakkul. Thank you, Lama, for your unwavering support, guidance and encouragement throughout this process.”
— M.A"I’ve worked with Lama for over a year, and it has truly been the most transformational season of my life. I came to her feeling broken and jaded, lost not only in navigating romantic relationships, but even more devastatingly, in my relationship with Allah. That disconnection carried so much guilt and shame that I was afraid to even put it into words.
In our very first session, Lama created a space so safe and compassionate that I found myself expressing thoughts and fears I had never shared with anyone. That was the beginning of my healing.
Over the months that followed, she helped me rediscover myself. I began to understand where my insecurities came from, reconnect with my values, and intentionally build a life I felt excited about again. My journey wasn’t linear. There were hard days, backslides, and moments when hopelessness resurfaced, but Lama supported me through all of it with patience, wisdom, and unwavering belief in me.
Slowly, the future that once felt foggy and uncertain became clear. I gained confidence in who I was and what I wanted. Most importantly, my relationship with Allah transformed. I no longer saw Him through the lens of fear or shame, but as a source of mercy, love, and nearness, even on my messiest days.
And then, when I truly least expected it, everything aligned. I met the man I had prayed for for years. Today, we’re engaged and excited to build a future together grounded in clarity, faith, and intention.
Lama is truly a gift from Allah. She was my guide back to Him and helped me open doors to a future I once believed was out of reach."
— Zainab K“Allah answered the dua I had made for 2 years. It was through Him showing me Lama’s YouTube videos to then taking her inner shift workshop. Lama helped me bring back this new confidence I never expected to have about myself. Her advice helped me realize how much our brains try to wire us into thinking of certain beliefs that aren't true. What amazes me more is how her advice does not only apply to helping you see how the marriage process is easier than it needs to be. Her advice is to help you grow and become the person you want to be or what I like to call your character development.
I say this because I have seen how much my life has shifted just from taking her advice and helping me grow into the person I want to be. Even some of my cousins were surprised at how much my mind had shifted and mentioned they were proud of my growth. Thank you Lama for helping me realize the potential I have in me and for making me see that the marriage process isn’t as daunting as it needs to be. ”
— N.R